AM: Thank you for sending me your book 
and answering some questions, Fay! How long have you been writing and is 
Because of Me your first novel?
FL: I 
have actually been writing since I learned to put letters together to form 
sentences. I believe storytelling was something I was born to do. 
Because of Me is my first published novel, but I have written many others 
before this one.
AM: Is there a story behind the book 
and how you came to write that particular story?
FL: As 
I said, I have always been a storyteller, so I’ve always had characters dancing 
around on an audition stage in my imagination. Michael Hayes is one of those 
characters. He seemingly came from nowhere. At least I didn’t recognize the 
significance of his timely audition. I remember very vividly that I was sitting 
on my back porch brainstorming, and Michael stepped up onto the stage with a 
very serious, sad face, and he told me that there’s a little boy named Cole and 
that this little boy wasn’t his son, but Cole was definitely born because of 
Michael.
After the story was written, I 
saw a little bit of my husband in Michael and a lot of both of my sons in Cole. 
I believe that my heart actually had this story planted inside as a way to tell 
my husband how much he is loved by his wife and by the two boys that he 
fathered, even when they were not his natural children. And I shake my head 
because it wasn’t until I’d written the story that I realized that Michael and 
Cole are the middle names of both of my sons, and my granddaughter’s middle name 
is the same as the heroine, Isabel.
What’s your favorite part of being 
a writer?
I 
love to work with other writers. I think we’re a unique sort of people. I 
participate in critique groups and help to mentor authors. On the other side of 
that, I love it when authors work with me, and I’ve had quite a few wonderful 
mentors myself.
I love working with other writers, too. What’s the hardest 
part of writing?
The 
hardest part of writing for me is something I don’t believe many writers like to 
admit. For me, I find it hard to find the time to write. I’d love to say that I 
sit down at my desk every day and write so many words before I do anything else. 
I can’t do that. I will never admit to being A.D.D., but in order to stay 
focused, I must have numerous projects going. What I’ve found helpful is to 
divide each of my projects into segments of an hour. Depending on the number of 
projects, I divide that by sixty, and I work so many minutes per hour on each 
project. At the end of the day, I’ve stayed focused because of the time 
constraints, and I’ve accomplished quite a few things, and writing is one of 
those.
That's a good method. Lately I've been more successful at actually closing FaceBook and focusing on my writing more while I'm at the computer. It's always a struggle for me, especially if I don't feel well. I know many writers have a similar challenge.
How long did the process of 
writing and then publishing take you, and do you have any advice for other 
writers who are trying to get published?
Although 
I’ve been writing since I was a kid, I didn’t take my writing seriously until my 
later twenties when I realized that God had given me a talent to use for Him. I 
had a few bumps in the road, and I placed a few roadblocks there myself. It took 
a good thirty years to find publication. So my advice to writers who are still 
waiting to get published—don’t stop trying. Keep learning and keep applying what 
you’re learning, and never stop searching for that editor or agent who believes 
in your work.  Look at each rejection as getting one step closer to the last 
rejection you’ll receive for that particular 
manuscript.
So glad you finally found the right home for one of your books. Now that the book has been out for 
a little bit, how is the marketing process going?
I have been so blessed with 
author friends who have hosted me in blogs, interviewed me, etc., and I have 
worked pretty hard to get the information out about Because of Me, but, 
in the end, marketing is about word of mouth advertising. Recently, I had to 
stop and catch my breath. I’d been working very hard at pushing the story—one I 
believe in with all my heart. When I took a moment to think about it, I realized 
that I was carrying a burden I shouldn’t be shouldering. It wasn’t that 
marketing was hard, but keeping up with the marketing along with all of my other 
jobs was wearing me thin. At that point, I knew I could work myself silly, or I 
could stop, bow the knees of my heart, and I could ask God to direct the success 
of Because of Me. Since that day, I have had to take several deep breaths 
and remember to turn it over to God, and He has been very faithful to open the 
doors for me.
Blessings on the  marketing and I look forward to seeing what God brings for you next. Thanks for joining us!
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